New Beginings...

My XH keeps telling me who and what he is, I need to listen.

Love makes us blind, but experience clears our vision. We often make exceptions to our spouses because we love them, we bend our expectations of what we deserve because of shared history, we tolerate the intolerable because of loyalty.

We all do it, but it's usually a two way street, give and take. Sometimes there comes a point when all we do is give, we give until we're empty and we realize that there's no one there to fill us back up.

That's when we should stop going to a well that's run dry, you can drop your bucket down time and time again but it's still gonna come up empty. You can stay there at that barren place for along time, with your life all dry, or you can start looking for something to quench the thrust in your heart.